How to get teenagers to organize their time well?
One of the most frequent complaints of teenagers is that they don't have time. We tell you how to get teenagers to organize their time well.
One of the most frequent complaints of teenagers is that they don’t have time for everything. And one of the most frequent complaints from parents of teenagers is that they do not take care of important things. The mixture of these two complaints leads to frequent arguments and alters the life of the family. That is why it is important to solve it. And also the solution is not excessively difficult. You just have to follow a series of steps. We will tell you how to get teenagers to organize their time well. Awareness Tips The first thing parents of teenagers should do is talk to their sons and daughters. They have to get them to understand that there are activities they should do. A relaxed chat will help parents and children share their concerns. For example, it will help parents to explain to their children that they have obligations that they must fulfill, such as attending school but also completing schoolwork and doing the housework that they are assigned. But it will also help teenagers explain to their parents the importance of other activities they do, such as playing sports or other hobbies, and even spending time with their group of friends. Both parties, parents and children, must listen to the other and understand their reasons. Lista de prioridades Una vez que se han puesto en común las actividades a las que los adolescentes dedican su tiempo hay que pedirle al hijo o hija que hagan una lista de actividades en orden de importancia. The most important activity for the student will appear at the top of the list. In practically all cases the assistance will be to school but there may also be other cases in which this activity is of another type. Such as fulfilling their religious obligations, practicing a sport if the adolescent is an elite athlete, etc. And after that, the boy or girl must write down everything to which they dedicate some time on a regular basis, even if it is very little time. For example, meeting your friends should appear on that list. But also take out the trash if that is one of your daily obligations within the family. Written schedule Once the teenager has made his list of daily and weekly activities, what we must do is organize a schedule with him. For this, diaries or calendars are very useful, allowing us to write a list with a schedule within each day. We can do it for weeks or even months. What the teenager should do is write his list of activities in that diary or calendar without forgetting any. There should appear both the activities that boys and girls do every day and those that they do once or twice a week. And you must assign a specific time to each of these activities. For example, school starts at 8 pm and ends at 3 pm, at which time it cannot include any other activities. Or, for example, if our son helps prepare dinner and that activity takes him half an hour each day, he will write that down on his calendar at the time he does it. And so with all his activities. Weekly review of the schedule Especially in the first weeks, it is important for the adolescent to check off the activities as they are done. This will give you a very precise view of whether you have time for everything or if there are activities that you can never do due to lack of time. with the pass or weeks you will no longer need to do it because you will have gotten used to doing each activity at the scheduled time. And also during the first weeks it is advisable that you review whether you have enough or lack time for the things you want to do and make the necessary adjustments in your time organization, always taking into account your list of priority activities.